A Grueling Two-Week Adventure
Itās a brilliant sunny morning, the horses are all where they belong and Iām on the couch this morning instead of my desk to write. My body aches. For the last two weeks, John and I have been waging war on the thistle at Serenity Ranch.
Last year when John told me he saw musk thistle I was surprised thinking it wouldnāt be a problem here. I was wrong. Before we knew it, they and the bull thistle were all over. When I closed/opened one of the gates I had to be careful not to get my fingers in them.
Letās Get the Thistle Before it Takes Over
I had seen some musk thistle in the draw next to the driveway and wanted to get it out before it went to seed. They propagate quickly. I went down last Sunday late afternoon thinking Iād dig a few up and put them in a bag. What I found were huge. Not even one would fit into the bag without cutting it up.
So, I clipped the gorgeous flowers off them, dug them up, and let them sit in a pile until I had help to bag them. John came on Monday, and we drove down to get them. He saw some I hadnāt seen the day before. So, we went after them. We didnāt have a great way to get them into the bags, so we put them in the back of his pickup.
Then he came Tuesday, and we bagged up what was in his pickup. I needed something that wasnāt full of thistles to drive to Lawrence and Overland Park on Wednesday. We were efficient at that it only took about 2 hours. In those three days, we had eight bags of thistles.
During the week I had seen the bull thistles start to grow under the corral fence. So, I had John come back up to dig and bag them yesterday (Sunday). I thought we had it all figured out. John thought we should get some heavier bags, so we headed into town. On the way, we saw some bull thistle and John wanted to get them while we knew where they were. So, we drove up the half-mile driveway stopping to dig thistles and throwing them into the back of his pickup. Not what I had in mind.
When we got back to the barn, we put those thistles in bags ā I think that was three. Then we headed out to dig and bag the ones around the corral. It had rained the last two nights, so the ground was soft, and they were easy to dig. We were worn out after three bags, but we still had some thistles that had been dug so we filled another. We came back to the house and unloaded the tools out of the pickup. Loaded the bags of thistles into the pickup. Put Ace and Patty out for the night. Then went to the house to fix dinner.
Sometimes Exhaustion Feels Good
Needless to say, Iām exhausted. Itās a good exhaustion though. A huge feeling of accomplishment. This is all part of the adventure.
I remember Mike wondering how I could be so tired when I wasnāt doing physical work like he was. I was mentally drained not physically tired. Both can be equally exhausting. The physical can be easier to recover from if it doesnāt come along with the mental.
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Hi what exactly is this Equine Gestalt Coaching MethodĀ®.
This comes from a post from Touched By A Horse which is the training program for the EGC Method: Gestalt Theory is About Creating Wholeness
The core of the Touched by a HorseĀ® Certification Program is the Equine Gestalt Coaching Method, which applies Gestalt Theory to equine-partnered coaching. As you work with Master Gestaltist Melisa Pearce, you will learn to understand and apply Gestalt Theory inside and outside the round pen in your own coaching practice.
Letās look at one of the fundamentals of Gestalt Coaching
š“ Gestalt Coaching is a non-diagnostic model
What does this mean?
The coach is not trained to label or view a client as fraught with disorders.
Instead, the coach engages the client in a process that leads them to the realization that we each have experiences of both healthy and less-than-healthy reactions and responses to the world around us. In many settings and with a creative variety of experiments, the practitioner and client explore, unabashedly, the personal operating system the client is currently operating on.
There is a video that explains it here: https://connectionandsynergy.com/egc-method/
There is also a link to the Touched By A Horse Website that has an explanation as well.
If you’d like more information email me and we can start a discussion around it.