Actually, everyone is reasonable.
They just have their own reasons.
And usually, it’s worth trying to learn what they are to maximize chances of a full-blown, 60’s style, psychedelic lovefest. Which is always a good thing.
Groovy you,
The UniverseMy reasons today are fun, laughter, and the 5th dimension. Y tu?
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Having my grandchildren for the first two weeks of August it was interesting to see a little about their temperaments as well as mine. Learning about temperaments has given me a piece to a puzzle that I would not have understood otherwise.
The oldest (8) is more introverted and would like to have time to herself or one-on-one with others. We discussed how the other kids demand everyone’s attention and that doesn’t leave as much for her. A few times when I felt like she needed some space I let her go into the bedroom and close the door while I kept the other kids out to give it to her.
The three-year-old girl I’ve known was an extrovert since she was born. As Mike’s mom would say about him – she’s never met a stranger. I have new neighbors that I haven’t met yet. The kids were out in the backyard and their kids were in their backyard. She got to know one of them over the fence and wanted to invite herself to their yard to play.
The two-year-old is probably an extrovert as well although not as high as his sister. He’s definitely in the “terrible two” stage and demanding a lot of attention. The family dynamics will be hard for the eight-year-old because I believe both parents to be extroverts as well. They won’t understand her need to be alone.
I understand more about myself too. I started and taught for one year the Computer Graphics Technology program at Northwest Tech in Goodland. My kids were 13, 10, and three that year. Although my classroom was normally fairly quiet, I would come home and want them to be quiet. I’d had enough of people for the day and would want to be alone while I fixed dinner before I got them to bed. I understood more about this while the kids were here.
Having lived alone for the last four years it was disruptive to my lifestyle having three children here 24 hours a day. When I could get a few minutes of solitude it was treasured. Not only are they high energy but I didn’t have the alone time to recharge. After they went to bed wasn’t enough time since I go to bed earlier myself than I did when my children were little.
It’s valuable to get to know about personality types. It helps you understand yourself and others better. It can lead to more rewarding relationships when you understand the reasons behind someone’s actions. It can help you understand the curly, prime reasons behind the way you and others relate.
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