Beyond the White Coat – Part 4

Presence Matters—Creating Focus Together in the Exam Room Presence Begins at the Door Life is full. For all of us. By the time a doctor walks into an exam room, they may already be carrying the weight of earlier patients, difficult conversations, urgent calls, and...

Beyond the White Coat–Part 2

When Patients Are Heard, Understanding Deepens and Healing Expands Our Bodies Speak—and We’re Willing to Help Translate Over the last few years, I’ve come to deeply appreciate how much information our bodies hold—and how powerful it can be when patients are invited...

Used to Be’s Do Count Podcast

I Used to Be…A Caregiver Podcast episode with Dean James Click on the button below for the podcast Used to Be's Do Count Podcast Let's Talk CS Bar — my grandfather Charles Socolofsky’s brand. Today, it’s mine too. A legacy carried forward, one story at...

Beyond the White Coat – Part 1

We’re Human–Make a Connection with Us If there’s one thing I’ve learned from being both a patient and a caregiver, it’s this: when a doctor takes a moment to connect with you as a human being, everything changes. We listen differently. We ask better questions. And we...

Finding Hope in the Cracks

How Horses Remind Me What Resilience Looks Like Caregiving isn’t something I chose—it’s a role that found me when my husband became ill, and later, when my son needed me too. Some days, it feels like I’ve been holding up the sky with nothing but my bare hands. On...