Emotional Attachments – Do You Have Stuff You Need to Release?
What do you have an attachment to? As I’ve decluttered my house it’s been interesting what I feel attached to and what is easy to release. Yesterday I read a beautiful post by a woman who lost her husband this spring. She talked about him wanting things to go to...Let the Horses Help You Find Your Vision
Some say the eyes are the window to the soul. The horses see our souls. They can also help us with our vision for the future. I’ve always had a lot of vision. My vision always included horses. I’ve also corrected the course of my vision several times. At first, it...How Do You Show the People in Your Life That You’re Always On Their Side?
It’s a beautiful cool and cloudy morning. After the heat wave we’ve had, it feels wonderful. We also got some much-needed rain and hopefully will get some more. Western Kansas has been in a drought this spring and summer and we’ve had multiple days when it’s been over...Follow Your Dreams and Passion
Is there something you’re passionate about? Something for which you would risk it all. That when you’re doing it everything seems right with the world. You are at peace. I have a few passions in my life. My children, singing, photography and design, and horses. Some...Ace – Getting Out of My Comfort Zone
I rode Ace for the first time on Saturday. We had checked the soreness in his back before I went to Hawaii. He didn’t seem to have any except up by his withers. Not only have I been worried about the soreness I’m a little intimidated by his size. I’ve never ridden a...Birthdays, Dreams, Trauma, and Grief
Today would have been Mike’s 63rd birthday. He left the planet just over four years ago. There’s not a day that goes by when I don’t think of him. The night before last I went to bed with some worries on my mind. He came to me in a dream to show me that everything was...Why Do I Procrastinate and Not Set Boundaries?
I’m leaving with John for Hawaii tomorrow, and I have a huge project that I wanted to finish part of and get to the next person. As I worked on it over the weekend, and basically nothing else, I decided Sunday night that I wasn’t going to be able to complete it. I...When Confronted with Fear Do You Fight, Run (Flight), or Freeze?
How do you experience growth? I see it as disruptive. It disrupts my comfortable life to grow. I was away at a workshop over Mother’s Day weekend. A workshop that I believe will help my Gestalt practice grow. This was also shortly after John had been hospitalized and...What Do You Do When Unexpected Events Occur?
Do you dig in your heels and try to fix it? Do you squeal and freeze? Do you look for the lesson? My reaction used to be to squeal and freeze. As I’ve spoken to others who have horses this shouldn’t have been unexpected. I have used alfalfa pellets before without any...Join Now
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