The Cracks Are Where the Light Gets In

When Life Breaks Open Over the past five weeks, I’ve shared some of the passions that sustain me — horses, caregiving, creativity, storytelling, and community. Each one has been a way of filling in the cracks that caregiving and life have carved into me. Keeping Life...

Belonging in the Midst of Caregiving

This blog is part of Filling in the Cracks, a five-week journey into the spaces where hardship and healing intersect. Why Connection and Community Matter Caregiving can be one of the loneliest roles in the world. When my husband was first diagnosed, and later when my...

Filling in the Cracks—Horses as Healers

CS Bar — my grandfather Charles Socolofsky’s brand. Today, it’s mine too. A legacy carried forward, one story at a time. On the ranch, there’s a saying: Ride for the Brand. It means you show up with loyalty, integrity, and heart—you stay true to the one you serve. For...

Rust, Routines, and Resilience

Parenting Through Seasons of Change School is starting again. Although I don’t have anyone in school around me now, I remember well what it was like to fall back into the routine. I would try to get my boys ready a few weeks early—moving dinner up, getting them into...

When Faith Meets Divine Timing

Learning to Wait for the Right Moment Sometimes you must have faith in Divine timing. I’ll admit—that’s not my strong suit. Patience is a shell I’m still growing into. Yesterday, I planned to attend a meeting in Lawrence. John had a job interview around the same time,...

Gossip, Community, and Confidentiality

Why Safe Spaces Matter In the Touched By A Horse® community, we have a set of agreements that guide how we show up for one another. These agreements are read aloud at every event, and one in particular always strikes a chord with me: Resolve Problems Constructively: I...