When we let go of what we think is best for us, we can receive what we truly need.
~ Anthon St. Maarten

Sometimes I feel like things are out of my control. It’s a very uncomfortable feeling for me. I want to control everything.

Today when I was having a massage this came up several times. I was told to surrender control of my head to her. Then my legs. Today I often found my hands and jaw clenched. I often find myself clenching when the massage gets deep instead of breathing into the relief I know it will bring.

I used to try to control Mike and my children. I have found that I cannot control others. Now I want to have control and know how something is going to happen. I have trouble trusting the process and allowing things to happen.

This is where horses help. They live in the moment. They don’t worry about how things happen. When we get into our heads around them, they will bring us back to the present. This might be by stepping on a foot – that gets our attention.

Horses can also help us gain confidence. If we are not confident about what we are doing with the horse, they won’t work with us. As I’ve helped women at the Hope Held by a Horse breast cancer programs, I’ve felt the horses stop when the women are not speaking their truth. You can’t fool them. Horses know what you are feeling even when you don’t.

I’ve seen the horses help with making decisions. They can feel the energy in what you are saying and help you see the right direction.

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